He melts my foolish heart in every single scene…
I lived single for a long time. It suited me fine because I did what I wanted when I wanted.
Commitments to people––family, friends, lovers, strangers––take work. (Though most things in life worth a damn take work.) Are we always in a position where we can put in this kind of sweat equity? No. So choose wisely to whom you’re going to give your time and attention. A good rule might be to examine how much of yourself you want to give to the person in question.
If you find yourself wanting to give of yourself whole-heartedly then it is a good sign that this person can fit into your life. Taking this kind of inventory may find you shedding some people along the way, but that’s necessary.
So you can make room for the right person.
Because at 6’2″, he needs some room…
Why am I thinking about this stuff now? I find I get more thinky in September. And, plus, autumn is traditionally the time of year when Koreans engage and experience a collective melancholia as they ponder the meaning of life. (Yes, I know everyone ponders the meaning of life, but it really is a national past time in Korea. Really. Go check it out for yourself.)